The path to making her want to take it all off.
As men, we all know that glorious moment. After one or several great dates, and everything has gone right; she is kissing you and giving you the green light. “The Panty Drop” may be the moment that she says: “I want to fuck,” or “Do you have a condom?” or she literally may just start taking off her clothes, including dropping her panties.
But rewind, how did we get there?
When it comes to sex, women are not a mystery. Understanding what makes a woman want you enough to take off her panties at the end of the night starts at meeting her and attracting her.
But beyond that, strategy is an important part of dating and sex. While there are no guaranteed ways to get her into bed with you, there are some tips that can help increase your chances of success.
Prerequisites to The path to making her want to take it all off.
- You have to meet women. Read my book How to hook up online with Hotter Women.
- Attract women to you. By becoming an attractive person.
But you could do all that and it’s not automatic that you will get lucky…
Make her feel comfortable and safe. The path to making her want to take it all off.
Most men have no clue how many fears women have, especially hot ones. As a man, I don’t really worry about being abducted and raped. But women have to consider that is a real danger in the universe of being a female.
Things women fear:
Rejection – Being judged – Not being taken seriously, Feeling uncomfortable in her own skin Women need to know you are not a creep, that you can handle yourself and won’t be disrespectful. They fear sexual assault that a man will not take no for an answer.
Women have to feel safe and comfortable with you, so take the time to build a rapport with her. Talk about common interests and show her you’re a genuine person who cares about her wellbeing. A woman’s sex drive is much more likely to be activated if she feels supported by you. Show your masculinity. Women are attracted to masculine men because they want a man with the ability to protect them. But comfort comes from being familiar with someone with a feeling of knowing them.
Five Ways to make a woman feel comfortable:
1. Start out slow: Before you start talking about sex, let her get to know you a little and establish a connection with her. Don’t jump right into conversations about sex too quickly or it will only make her feel.
2. Show emotional intelligence by not getting stressed out when minor mishaps happen. Even how you treat a server matters. Sometimes she will cause mishaps to test you to see if she can trust you..
3. Physical touch. This is a big deal women respond to touch men respond to visuals. If you practice escalation of physical touch, it will feel natural and good for her to end up sleeping with you.
4. Make eye contact: Eye contact is key to building connections with someone, so don’t be afraid to look into her eyes when she is speaking. Someone who will not make eye contact cannot be trusted. This is a matter of confidence.
5. Be relaxed. This advice can be confusing. Sometimes it’s like the advice be yourself but the good self. Be relaxed is more of appearing easy going. If you appear comfortable, she will feel that it’s okay for her to be comfortable.
6. Be vulnerable to a degree. Women do not want overly emotional men. They want to be the emotional one in the relationship, but an excellent method of showing vulnerability is to say: “I usually tell no one this, but I had a rough childhood… or an ex hurt me, but I learned xyz… or before I was successful, I really struggled.
7. Listen to her actively. Active listening is a skill, and it makes people feel important and heard.
Ways to make her feel safe:
1. Be reliable and trustworthy: Make sure you keep your promises, show up on time, and don’t bail out last minute when she least expects it.
2. Protect her honor: If any guys disrespect her, step up to the plate and defend her.
3. Don’t be a bunny rabbit be a lion: Women want a man who is confident and can take charge if the situation calls for it.
4. Don’t suffocate her: A woman needs her space to do her own thing, so give her room to breathe and don’t be overbearing with your affection or attention. Don’t be needy and don’t be too serious and don’t take yourself too serious.
By making her feel comfortable and safe, a woman will find it easier to become aroused by you and get turned on. When she feels connected with you, she’ll start opening up to you.
Safety comes into play because she knows you and trust you. Be vulnerable to a degree. Women do not want overly emotional men. They want to be the emotional one in the relationship, but an excellent method of showing vulnerability is to say: “I usually tell no one this, but I had a rough childhood… or an ex hurt me, but I learned xyz… or before I was successful, I really struggled.
This is just the beginning of our journey int Panty Droppers…
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