Why sex noises matter when having intercourse.

This is why sex noises matter during intercourse. You may as well include oral sex as well. During sex, men and women love sex noises. Men, women may not have told you but they like it when you moan, groan, grunt and say fuck when you cum. For so long, it never occurred to me that women like it when men make sex noises, as much as men like it when women make sex noises. In the realm of sexual pleasure, there is an often overlooked but incredibly powerful tool that can heighten the intensity and connection between partners – sex noises. If you don’t believe just turn the volume off when you watch porn next time. How much less enticing it is with no sound?

The Why and How.

In this blog post, we will explore the reasons why sex noises matter during intercourse and oral sex as well. And how they can enhance intimacy in the bedroom. This is a very rare suggestion for men to enhance their sex game and a reminder for women. Women are more intuitive than men and the best of them know that being vocal when having seggs makes them much more attractive in bed.

Seggs: a word used for sexual intercourse or for fucking when you don’t want to be censored on social media platforms.

The Power of Communication during Sex.

Communication during sex is critical, using the right words, eye contact, body language, facial expressions and non-intelligent audible communication is a big key too. What we are talking about is sex noises made during sex. When you are receiving pleasure from your partner, these noises are how you express that.

Words are very un-necessary.

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It’s not just for women.

We men love it when women make moans, grunts, whines, and other sex noises while we are having sex. But for some reason, men tend to be insecure about making sex noises. Maybe it’s because men do not want to appear feminine. But sex noises are expressions of sexual gratification by both sexes. Studies have shown women love it when men express their gratification in bed with their sex noises.

Researchers from the University of Nebraska Omaha found that professional tennis players increase the ball’s velocity by 3.8% if they grunt while taking their shot.

Different types of sex noises and their meanings.

• The grunt. Grunting during sex could be an expression of sexual intensity. The physical work out aspect of it. It is a very attractive sound when done right.
• Moaning. Moaning is an expression of sexual pleasure. It makes your partner feel good to hear that he or she is giving you this pleasure when you moan.
• The whimper. A well-placed whimper is an intense sign of pleasure and sexual intensity.
• Panting. Panting or heavy breathing is a physical response to sexual stimulation.
• Dirty talk. Dirty talk can be as simple as telling your partner the kinkiest fantasy you want to do with her. It’s a great way to enhance the sexual fire between you and your partner, but it’s very personal for each couple. Words can mean different things to different people.
• Screaming. People who scream during sex usually mean that they have greater sexual satisfaction. Screaming might be a greater expression than a low moan, but it’s just shades of grey.
• Words of Affirmation. This Just means you are vocal in giving your partner affirmative feedback about how he or she is making you feel. Example: “Baby, you make me feel so good.” or “I feel so good inside of you.”

Dirty talk is a sexual practice in which partners use words and sounds to increase arousal and mutual sexual pleasure. Dirty talk can include single sounds or words (like “yes,” “more,” or a moan), phrases that describe what’s happening, or more complex ideas that detail upcoming action or construct a fantasy. 

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8 ways to elevate your dirty during sex.

1. Embrace Confidence: Confidence is key when it comes to dirty talk. Own your desires and express them with conviction. Let your voice drip with confidence as you describe your deepest fantasies and desires to your partner.
2. Get Specific: Don’t be afraid to get detailed and specific in your dirty talk. Use vivid and graphic language to describe what you want and how it makes you feel. Paint a sensual picture with your words, leaving no room for ambiguity.
3. Use Powerful Verbs: Choose your words carefully and use powerful verbs that convey intensity and passion. Instead of saying, “I want you,” say, “I crave you, I ache for you.” Opt for verbs that evoke strong emotions and create a sense of urgency.
4. Incorporate Sensory Language: Engage all the senses with your dirty talk. Describe how your partner tastes, smells, feels, and sounds. Use sensory language to amplify the erotic experience and immerse your partner in the moment.
5. Mirror Your Partner’s Reactions: Pay attention to your partner’s responses and mirror their reactions in your dirty talk. If they respond positively to certain words or phrases, incorporate them more frequently. Adapt your language to match their desires and heighten their pleasure.
6. Explore Power Dynamics: If you and your partner are comfortable with power dynamics, incorporate them into your dirty talk. Use dominant or submissive language to deepen the intensity of your sexual encounters. Establish clear boundaries and safe words beforehand.
7. Be Vocal About Consent: Consent is crucial, even in the realm of dirty talk. Make sure you and your partner have established boundaries and open communication. Respect each other’s limits and check in regularly to ensure that the dirty talk aligns with both of your desires.
8. Practice and Experiment: Like any skill, dirty talk improves with practice. Experiment with different phrases, tones, and scenarios. Pay attention to what works for you and your partner, and don’t be afraid to try new things. Keep an open mind and enjoy the journey of exploring your sexual communication.

Remember, dirty talk is all about mutual pleasure and consent. Communicate openly, listen to your partner’s cues, and enjoy the intimate connection that comes from exploring your desires through words. Let your imagination run wild and let your dirty talk ignite fiery passion in the bedroom.

It’s all about Heightening Pleasure.

Sex noises can contribute to the overall pleasure experienced during intercourse. The physiological and psychological effects of hearing and making sex noises is that it stimulates sexual arousal between you and your partner. Moans, groans, and other vocalizations can stimulate arousal and intensify orgasms. This is so true. I can tell you watching a porn video with the audio off is not as good and it’s the same way if you are not vocalizing your pleasure to your partner.

Non verbal sex partners are equivalent of the dead fish sex analogy. It gives the other partner the feedback, wrong or right, that she is not stimulating you sexually.

Sex noises build intimacy and connection.

Sex noises in building emotional and physical intimacy between partners. The act of vocalizing pleasure can create a sense of vulnerability and trust. Sometimes people have insecurities about vocalizing their own sexual pleasure, but they should not. It builds connection with your partner.

Breaking Societal Taboos.

Men often times are taught that they must be stoic to express their manliness. In many areas, this advice is good, such as don’t be too emotional with women too soon, but don’t be silent in bed.

Practical Tips for Enhancing Sex Noises.

If you have always been a silent man in bed, make small changes first. You don’t need to change your style completely and become super noisy during sex, but go with your feelings. Try some dirty talk and express those grunts and moans during heightened sexual activity.

Final thoughts on Sex Noises.

Men and women love hearing sex noises. This could be a small thing that really improves your partner’s enjoyment of your sexual encounters. If you or your partner is having difficulty making noise during sex, there could be several reasons why. Some people are shy and do not express themselves, period. It’s important for you to make your partner feel comfortable and safe to express him or herself. There also could be some major attraction issues with your partner if he or she doesn’t make any noises during sex. It could mean a lack of sexual attraction and even if there is not, that is the signal that he or she is sending.

Anyway, I encourage you to pump up the volume on your sex noises and pump up the pleasure. Please comment and leave your feedback, questions or insight on sex noises.