The Game has changed.
The Game has Changed, for those under 25 may be unaware of the significant changes in the game. But the dating and pick up game has changed. Twenty years ago we did not have the internet. Actually, we had the internet, but it was primitive. We had dial-up internet, and we didn’t widely have smart phone. Dating and hook up culture has changed significantly. It’s even changed in the last 10 years.
Online dating is not what you think.
You don’t have to go onto Tinder, Plenty of Fish dot com, or Bumble to meet women online. Lots of men and women connect on Facebook or Instagram, SnapChat, TikTok or X. A clue is when a person of the opposite sex starts commenting on a lot of your old post and pics on social media. This shows they are checking you out for whatever reason.
It’s over simplified now.
Status is the key. For men and women, if you can display high-status on social media, you will have so many options with the opposite sex. Status is so obvious on social media. For women, if you look great in a bikini and can get some good pics for Instagram and Facebook you are golden. All a woman needs to do is have an impressive body, sexy fashion sense and take good selfies or pictures of herself with friends. That’s it, her job is done, if she has sex appeal.
For men, it’s not much more complicated. Step one, be rich. Step two show off your high status with cars, trips, mansions and lifestyle. As a bonus, be highly attractive, go to the gym, and pick up some muscles and chiseled abs.
Social Media has changed everything.
Fifteen years ago, social media wasn’t all in your face like it is now. Actually, if you have a high status, it will help you with everything you do. It will help you with your online presence, giving you the opportunity to meet more people. And it will help you offline too. BUt being online you don’t have to brag, people just see it all over their feed. As a man, you want to be doing exciting things and living a life of passion and adventure. Outside of mountain climbing and being in a rock-n-roll band, that requires money.
No man is high status without money.
You can be loved by God and your family, but if you do not have enough money, you’re not a high value man. There’s no getting around this. Seek a career, a passion, and a means to accumulate wealth. Women desire and crave men who offer them security. Financial security is number one and then physical strength and protection. They want a beast, not a harmless bunny rabbit. All this can be displayed masterfully on social media and will attract attention from women.
No Woman can be high status without sex appeal.
Without sexual attractiveness, money and status won’t matter to men. Most men don’t care about a woman’s financial status, except for a few who want a sugar momma. We don’t usually want to date a woman that is so broke that she needs us to take care of her in the beginning. Successful men frequently date secretaries, waitresses, and college students. But you won’t see them dating overweight and un-attractive women.
The Good, Bad and The Ugly.
So the hard truth is that 80% of women are chasing the 20% of men who are financially successful and show high-value status on social media. And 80% of men are chasing the 20% of women who show high-status, being highly desirable sexually. And 20% of men and 20% of women aren’t chasing anyone because they are the ones being chased. Unfortunately, this leaves many people unhappy. They are saying there are no good men or good women out there.
Incels.
As the task of becoming a financially successful man may seem so difficult, many younger men have given up. These men, mostly under the age of thirty, are called Incels, because they are involuntarily celibate. They see no opportunity to have short-term or long-term relationships with attractive women, so they have turned to video games, porn and fapping.
Success is worth fighting for.
Giving up is easier than putting in the work, but it’s not rewarding. Most things worthwhile are challenging. But it’s not impossible to become rich in the USA. Even now, and even if you are starting out with nothing, you can build financial success, one step at a time. And for women, there are a lot of things they can do to improve their status, hit the gym, learn about healthy eating habits. There are also a lot of medical options nowadays.
